Friendship On a Platter

You realize there are two kinds of friends in this world….both have your back in different ways. There are the friends who are loyal, honest and always have your best interest at heart. Then, there are those that also have your back, just on a platter, with a knife, sticking right into it. 😲 Sounds a bit harsh right? I most recently had a discussion with my husband sharing my concerns about how I wish I could change myself and not be so trusting. I trust everyone – because I always look for the best in people. I always go above and beyond for the people I care for, only to be served on a platter – with the Cutco strategically placed where it hurts most. One wise person once told me “You’re too kind” you need to stop. And another wise person advised “Don’t change the way you are because others are assholes.”

I suppose the latter of the two is the better advice to follow.  I always preach kindness and inclusivity to my kids. Unfortunately, I recently, witnessed how easily that can bite you in the ass and how quickly a ‘friend’ can throw you under the bus when they feel cornered or under pressure. “Throw you under the bus?” How do you survive that?

 
You hold your head up high. 

Appreciate their weakness.

Acknowledge their dishonesty. 

Learn the truth about your surroundings....... and remove yourself unscathed.
 
Lesson taught. Lesson learned.